Great points are made regarding self-care and boundaries versus avoidance. I do not want seething anger, but small amounts get me moving and engaged. When conversing with another person, that is differently minded, I don’t want any anger so I can clearly listen and make sure the person feels heard. Following Karin’s ideas during election time really worked if the other person had the time to stay and talk with me.
If we become too desensitized does that mean we become so habituated that we are complacent? Fear can spark action. Fear is what led to the rise of MAGA (fear of immigrants, LGBT, books, diversity). Not advocating fear, just wondering where the balance lies.
Karin,
I joined Braver Angels because you encouraged it!
Last week I participated in one of their national debates.
The video of the debate was published yesterday.
https://healthyfamilies.substack.com/p/trumps-first-100-days-a-braver-angels
Thanks so much for encouraging it. I am looking forward to more engagement with them in the coming years.
Cheers!
Jenny
Thanks, Jenny. I will definitely watch it. I’m so glad you are finding them valuable.
Great points are made regarding self-care and boundaries versus avoidance. I do not want seething anger, but small amounts get me moving and engaged. When conversing with another person, that is differently minded, I don’t want any anger so I can clearly listen and make sure the person feels heard. Following Karin’s ideas during election time really worked if the other person had the time to stay and talk with me.
OK, wow, thank you for this. I'm realizing that I really need to try this.
If we become too desensitized does that mean we become so habituated that we are complacent? Fear can spark action. Fear is what led to the rise of MAGA (fear of immigrants, LGBT, books, diversity). Not advocating fear, just wondering where the balance lies.