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Erica Etelson's avatar

I'd add to this very insightful post that blinding political loyalties cut both ways. I used to reflexively presume that all consersative beliefs were rooted in disinformation. At some point, I began checking things out for myself and realized that I was wrong about certain things that my tribe takes as gospel truth. I now try to hold my opinions lightly until I've had a chance to hear from all sides, which includes doing my own fact-checking on what everyone is asserting.

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Nella's avatar

Thank you for great post.

I often thought about some of the dynamics you described as I was navigating the most challenging aspects of several years of dealing with my health insurance company as I pushed back against their nonsense to avoid financial ruin. The banality of those customer service agents who could not have cared less if I was bankrupted or landed in the street. Or the VP who sent a letter that, effective immediately, kicked me out of the care of my specialist. The cruelty of it was remarkable. Zero empathy.

I chose to file complaints and insisted on speaking up and pushing back against the cruelty.

While it was no fun to endure - and I did prevail, fortunately - I am well aware that, ironically, it was good training for the unfolding times we're in now.

This is why I believe that it's important to take a moral stand along the lines of it not being right to treat anyone the way people are being treated as ICE carts them away. I think it's important to bring focus to the issues of humanity so that the callousness cannot completely take over. It's not about judging or characterizing folks who still support Trump; there's also cult mind control going on there and trauma binding, IMHO.

I think it's important to state loudly, clearly, and repeatedly that empathy is an important aspect of our national character. This is why we will not stand for more and more cruelty.

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